I got married two years ago today, and I’m really happy.
Alhumdu’lillahi rabil ‘alameen.
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The 1st quarter of school ended about one week ago. And as you may have guessed it, with that time came a flood of students with a sudden concern for their grades. These are the students who don’t do any real work all quarter, float through class without a care in the world, never ask questions, participate, or show any genuine interest. Imagine my surprise when now I find them checking up on grades, and asking for assignments back to see how many points they had earned.
I was happy to see they were enthusiastic about improving, but at the same time very disheartened that they would wait ’til the last moment to show such enthusiasm. Because really, how much could any student possibly improve a bad grade a week before the quarter ends?
The culminating moment of desperation came on the morning of the last Friday of the quarter. A student approached me after I had finished teaching a new lesson asking me what in the world she could possibly do to improve her grade. She absolutely couldn’t take home a D to her parents. She said she would do anything: extra credit, assignments, projects, retakes, redos, etc. I just looked her like, “Are you kidding?”
I picked up a pile of homework that had been turned in that morning and quickly glanced through the papers. Hers wasn’t in there. So I asked her, “Did you do your homework?” (more…)